This week, Angi Black helps you sail through the halfway point of JuNoWriMo (and probably also your diet if you’re on one).
Hey there JuNoWriMo-ers! It’s week two and we’re nearly halfway done!!
How you doing?
Two weeks in is always the tipping point for me. If I’m sailing, I only build steam. On the other hand, if I’m struggling, I think about quitting. And that’s what today’s pep talk is about. How to keep going no matter how it is going.
It’s always easy to sit down and write when the words are flowing. Those are the best days. You sit down, stretch your fingers over the keys, and with that gentle tap-tap-tap the world that lives in your brain comes to life in front of your eyes. It’s like magic and you are the wizard.
But what about those days when it’s hard to put a sentence together? What about the times when life stands in between you and the keyboard? The days when you’ve convinced yourself you’re not a writer. Those are the days I’m talking about.
First – everyone has those days. Every. One. If they say different, they are selling something.
Second – it’s gonna happen. Sometimes I can sit down and pump out so many words I have to double check the count to make sure I actually did that. Sometimes, I can’t do anything but read over my last chapter and delete the ten times I used the word Just.
Third – One bad day does not equal a wasted month. (Or year, or book, or whatever our brains would like us to believe).
When I get stuck I try to remember those three things. I take a deep breath and think them through.
Have you ever been on a diet? That was a silly question. I’ll rephrase. Remember the last time you were on a diet? And you ate that pizza and then you had a birthday party and ate cake and then because you’d done all that you finished the day with one (or three) too many glasses of wine? No?
Oh. Me either then. But hypothetically speaking… Because you’d felt like you’d blown it you decided to make your little bonfire into the explosion behind Ironman as he walks away. This is the same thing we do to our writing when it doesn’t come easy. We take a slow day of writing and turn it into OH MY GOD I’LL NEVER WRITE ANOTHER WORD WHAT AM I DOING HOW DID I GET HERE?????
And you know what’s great? It’s the easiest thing not to. All you have to do is this – be nice to yourself.
I know, weird, right?
When you start to struggle, think about what you would say to someone else who is struggling. I bet you’d encourage them, tell them they got this, and give them permission to have a slow day.
So now, do that for yourself. A lot of us think we’re not writers because of where we are in the process. Some of think we’ll never finish that second (or third or tenth) book. All of us worry it won’t be good enough.
If you are writing, you are a writer.
You will finish whatever you put your mind to.
And your words will speak to the people they are supposed to.
All it takes is a whole lotta bravery and a little patience with ourselves.
So happy writing, my friends!!
Now, take a deep breath! Because I believe in you. You got this!!! And slow or fast, you’ll get there. Happy writing!
With magic words and love,
Angi Griffee is a dance and theater instructor whose love affair with words helps her create books. She also bakes, sings, and owns Wise Owl Words Editing.